Question from D J:
Q: There’s this girl that I’m really crazy about that works at a local pawnshop down here in Virginia. She’s a bit of a reserved-wildcard and a former US marine. We talk all the time and she really seems like a down to earth kinda person. What can I do to really get her attention? She really doesn’t seem like a roses kinda gal. Sometimes I don’t even know what to say to her on that level.
“Communication is always best! Sometimes it’s so hard to know what to say; especially with a new person. Sounds like you two can talk. Now take it to the next level. How about asking her out for coffee or lunch or dinner first? As casual as you feel, just to break the ice. I, myself was captivated by a GENTLEMAN at our first date and later we were married! It can happen!”