Question from Amber E:
It’s about my husband of 20 yrs. the last 10 years or so my relations have taken a nosedive with 1 to 2 times a month of relations, I have teen kids, husband wakes up early 3 am to go to work. Is this normal? This doesn’t feel normal to me. Thank you
“ Darling….one thing that stands out to me about your question is you say, ‘ MY relations ‘. This seems just a teeny bit selfish. How about ‘ OUR relations ‘? Consider how the other person feels. Is sex a natural thing or maybe starting to feel a little like a pressure? Is it a joy or a requirement to keep the peace?
Sex with the one we love is one of life’s sweet gifts and it’s a vitamin for marriage… but try to catch it in a net and it will flutter out of your reach.
At 20 years of marriage, once or twice a month is miraculous my love. Consider what you do have! ”